Money Optional
The cost of having that dream day come true can add up very quickly. Asking for a little help… well that can never hurt. The only problem is that most people consider this a pretty touchy subject. How to ask for money without being rude? Ok well asking for any type of gift has always been considered rude and inappropriate. Gifts in general are considered to be optional. However, the world around us has changed, with the costs of weddings today and couples many times having already lived together, a pot doesn’t always come in handy. As long as it’s done in the right way, you can get a little help from your guests without insulting anyone. Here are some ideas to consider.
1. The first and best way “to ask for cash” is to spread the word amongst you closest friends and family and should your guests inquire on what it is you need or want they can let them know.
1. The first and best way “to ask for cash” is to spread the word amongst you closest friends and family and should your guests inquire on what it is you need or want they can let them know.
2. Many people don’t like to give money simply because they feel it does not contribute as a long lasting memento from that guest. Consider registering your honeymoon, this way they will feel they contributed to your first getaway as a couple and you save on a pretty expensive trip!
3. Although controversial to some, hinting in your invitation that you would appreciate monetary contributions is another way of going about it. Consider adding that you will have a wishing well set up for those guests who wish to make such contributions. Not only will this give guests the choice, but will also make for a romantic touch to the event.
4. Another way of spreading the word is through your wedding website. If you have one, post a little blog thanking your guests ahead for any sort of contribution they could extend. Perhaps include a plan you have as a couple that you would use the funds for. (i.e.: a boat, new kitchen, car…)
Sensitivity is key with this topic. Although against etiquette to some, couples are asking for money more and more. Simply put, guests are helping their friends begin their life with a little egg if they wish to go the monetary way. There is nothing wrong with that, and it cuts the pressure of finding that great gift or buying the towels from the registry.
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